Attempting to parse HTML with regular expressions is generally an extremely bad idea. Use a parser instead, there should be one available for your chosen language.
You might be able to get away with something like this:
</?tag[^>]*?>
But it depends on exactly what you're doing. For example, that won't remove the tag's content, and it may leave your HTML in an invalid state, depending on which tag you're trying to remove. It also copes badly with invalid HTML (and there's a lot of that about).
Use a parser instead :)
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